Over the weekend the internet and cable TV roiled like a flooded river as the events of Newtown, Conn., truly began to sink in across the nation. It was an awful two days of high emotion, sorrow, misinformation, anger and anguish.
First, the purely political began the job of assigning immediate blame. That’s what the purely political do. Then once blame is fairly or unfairly assigned, those on the opposing side immediately launch the inevitable counterpoint.
That part is all too predictable but easily avoidable to those who truly wish to do so.
Most hunkered down, hugged their kids, talked to friends and neighbors or ultimately reflected in prayer or some other form of comforting meditation. People searched for what little they could do to provide comfort for our brethren in the community of Newtown. The vast majority, though, simply felt helpless and damned mad about it.
This idea of societal blame for the actions of a mentally disturbed 20-year-old who took a load of weapons into an elementary school and murdered 26 people, 20 of them 6 and 7 year old children, is one that continues to yank at the collective mind of the nation. We have far too many of these random massacres. The names of the sites are even better known than the shooters: Columbine, Virginia Tech, Fort Hood, Aurora, Milwaukee . . .
The shout for stricter gun control follows every single one, particularly those where assault weapons are used. The pro-gun groups predictably and rightly point out that the actions of maniacs could be carried out by dozens of other means. Tim McVeigh is their poster boy. He developed a bomb by using common fertilizer. It was a well-planned act of political terrorism.
What the pro-gun groups swallow whole and bury deep, is the fact that assault weapons provide a quick and efficient way for those of limited capabilities to do the most damage. Few deranged people can build a bomb, but nearly all can pull the trigger of an automatic weapon and commit unspeakable harm.
So yeah, we need to make those things harder to get.
But it’s far more complicated than that.
Gun-control legislation won’t make such incidents go away. What it would do is make carrying out these acts more difficult. But end public massacres? Not a chance.
The violence in our culture is a complicated equation made up of several things neither the government nor the public want to address. The sad truth is, the violence in our culture is directly linked to failures by our most powerful institutions.
Guns are a part of that equation and a big part. But so is pervasive mental illness. Political leaders have made a hobby of cutting services in that area. The mentally disturbed and their family members aren’t a very powerful lobby. They don’t make huge campaign contributions. As a result, politicians make a habit of ignoring mental health in hopes the people impacted will all go away.
Our society pays a price for it again and again.
Easily accessible guns combined with the mentally disturbed already form a deadly sum. Toss in a culture of violence percolated through saturation coverage by media of all description — print included — and the mathematical breaking point seems obvious.
I thought a lot this weekend about media coverage of the school massacre in Connecticut. I watched on Friday as incorrect information was cavalierly distributed each minute by largely cable TV news, which was then magnified online and through social media. There is no filter anymore. Cable news simply spits things out with very little thought about what’s accurate, fair or ethical. Was it really necessary to interview children on the day of the shootings?
Really?
Was it?
With endless hours of programming to fill, cable news decisions are based on quantity, not quality. Anyone who watched Nancy Grace can attest to it. Hour after hour the reporting continued, even when there was no news to report. All of this, of course, was backed by almost ceaselessly and often ignorant commentary based on the incorrect information being supplied by reporters in the field.
By concentrating on extreme acts of violence to the exclusion of all else, it does become glorified in the mind of someone with a potential to act in order to meet a deranged goal.
While I take some solace in the fact that print media conducts itself better, we’re still not without responsibility for lowering our nation’s culture to a near gutter level.
The news media’s job is to report about major incidents and to do so fairly and factually. But there is a greater responsibility not to sensationalize events or create more harm for those directly involved in such tragedies. And we certainly shouldn’t turn the killers themselves into celebrities.
And all of us in the public, well, at some point we have a responsibility to turn off the TV when the coverage becomes too much. After all, if people aren’t watching, then TV news would change the programming.
It’s how the business works.

Now here’s a reasonable and balanced headline concerning the release from prison of Casey Anthony early, early this morning. For those who have been on vacation for the past couple of years or who have otherwise had normal productive lives, she was once accused of killing her daughter Caylee but was acquitted earlier this month by a jury in Orlando, Fla. Apparently the anger of the public with the jury’s decision will force Casey Anthony to hide from public view for awhile for her own safety.
1. Under no circumstances should candidates from any party send campaign mailers to my house. The candidate who sends campaign mailers to my home will automatically lose my vote. I do not appreciate having trash arrive via U.S. Mail. If you have campaign mailers to send and simply can’t stop yourself, truck them to a recycling facility.
“Cary Allred was arrested for DWI,” the note, written in red ink, said.



Usually you think of celebrities performing in large venues like the Greensboro Coliseum. Nelson himself has sung in lots of large places during his long and illustrious career. But he’s played plenty of small places, too. When you’re considered an “outlaw,” well, anything goes.
The case even raised the hackles of state Sen. Charlie Albertson, a Democrat from Beulaville who’s a singer and songwriter in his own right. He’s the front man for the Charlie Albertson Band and his latest recording is called, “Leave the Man Alone.” Albertson, who isn’t not seeking re-election, calls out the ALE and said so as well 
At that time I was working at the Jacksonville Daily News but lived in the town of Cape Carteret, which is about three miles from the planned subdivision with lot prices ranging from about $350,000 to nearly $700,000. That’s a lot folks, no dwelling, no structure, no garden shed, no outhouse and I’m not even sure what the water and sewer situation might be down there. Septic systems on the coast are sketchy things, believe me. Still, the fabulous brick entrance went up before any home. Some lots have boat access, some have waterfront access and a few have both.
Everybody in Carteret County knew it was a weird deal but nobody would speak about it on the record — and many still won’t. But lots of people in my neighbrhood discussed the subdivision because it was another sign that property values in our general vicinity were moving into an area beyond way out of control and into simply the realm of shocking. Let’s just say that a many,many people who bought water and ocean front property for pretty cheap back in the 1980s made out like bandits when they unloaded land in Bogue, Pine Knoll Shores, Cape Carteret and Emerald Isle from 2004-2007 — before real estate everywhere went belly up. A guy sold Arrowhead Campground in Salter Path for a cool $10 million and retired to Emerald Isle because he could finally afford it.
Everybody, it seems, has some version of the truth or some kind of spin on the proposals at hand. And some politicians or talking suits on TV are — hold on to your hats — just plain liars.
The St. Petersburg Times in Florida for its online edition came up with